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It can be challenging to turn on rest & relax mode especially if you’re drowning in To Do’s or going through a difficult time emotionally. It’s exactly in those times when you need to put on the brakes even if it’s for a few moments. Your brain’s telling you “I’m too busy to slow down” because you're in fight or flight mode. It doesn't think it's safe to slow down. It's your job to give it the cue to calm down. Your Relaxed Body & Brain will bring more clarity and emotional regulation so you can actually be more productive. You’ll feel, move, communicate, and perform better. From Restless To RelaxedHere are 4 Strategies to help you tap into your Relaxed Body and cue your brain that it’s safe to slow down:
Mindfulness is moment to moment awareness without judgment. Start small by paying attention to your breathing, drinking your cup of coffee, or eating a meal. How does it look, smell, taste, or make you feel? Expand into being mindful during cleaning, cooking, or baking activities. You don’t have to practice for hours to get the benefits of mindfulness, but you do have to practice. The more you do it, the easier it is to find your flow. I find connecting with nature to be a great way to practice mindfulness and it always helps me slow down. A walk outside usually does the trick for me. No phone or podcasts. Just exploring the beauty around me. For you it might be gardening. I'm starting to become a birder. Last week we took a group Birding with Virginia from Birdability and we observed 13 species! The Red-bellied Woodpeckers are just gorgeous. Each time I go, I find it more fun and relaxing. Looking and listening for birds requires you to be in the present moment. It definitely helps going Birding with an experienced guide but I’m using the Merlin Bird ID App more on my own walks. It'll tell you what a bird is when you record it singing. I do want to invest in some better binoculars. The fall is a great time to do some Birding if you want to give it a try.  Birding at Richard Moya Park with Virginia from Birdability & my colleagues from Collage Home & Community Rehab. Virginia has a passion for making Birding accessible to all & her programs have spread all over the country. OVER TO YOU: If you struggle to slow down, test out one of the strategies: Make Space, Move Your Body, Music, and/or Mindfulness to help you turn on your Relaxed Body. Listen to your body. It’ll tell you what it needs to slow down. It’ll not only feel calmer but also help you tap into more of your intuitive, creative, and happiness vibes.  P.S. Want more strategies to slow down? Grab your FREE Relaxed Body Toolkit here.
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Woohoo, we did it! We launched our Texas sized Tandem SUP. Besides being a ton of fun to be back on the water, it felt good to accomplish something we had talked about doing for years. It all started when we saw a group paddling on the lake with these huge inflatable boards that held their dogs, coolers, and 2-3 people on each board. Literally a paddle party! It seemed like the solution to our dogs crying when they were separated on the boards or about wanting all of us on one board. The inflatable tandem board also does better on open water or the rougher water of a Texas lake. Unfortunately, Tyson (our 16 year old dog) passed away before we got it going but this summer we decided it was time to go all in and it would be part of our 20 year anniversary celebration. The weather cooperated and it was a success with only a few hiccups, so it was good we tested it without Teddie (our now 14 year old dog). It’s always exciting & healthy for your body & brain to start something new. Here's a video of the journey so far...  We love SUP because it’s a FULL body workout that challenges both your body & brain. An excellent way to turn on your postural muscles and get into flow. You get the benefits of the calming meditative powers of nature AND the core challenge to your balance & coordination from stabilizing on the water. Tandem paddle boarding requires even more coordination and teamwork. It felt more like sculling as the board is sensitive to our every move. We need more practice before we bring Teddie out but are loving being back on the water. We’ll be taking advantage of the cooler weather over the next few months to get comfortable with the board. It’s a great time to try SUP if you’ve never tried or get back to it if you have before. If you can’t get near a body of water, here are 4 exercises to help you experience the healing power of water no matter where you are. 1. Cooling Breathwork: visualize or sit in nature or near water and do some Cooling Breathwork. 2. The Fountain: try this Qi Gong "Fountain" exercise. It’s a moving meditation to help you get in the flow and “just be water.” It can be done in sitting or standing. Kids love it. It’s a fun one to do when you need a quick break to clear your mind, calm your body, or recharge. Just 7 reps can make a difference and help you find your flow. Watch this short video to learn how simple it is to do. 3. Water Meditation: lie down in a comfortable position and visualize a waterfall pouring over you. Inhale In the good healing powers of the water. Imagine absorbing all the “energy” or “power” of the waterfall. Exhale and release anything you want to let go of (i.e. toxic thoughts, pain, etc). Continue for 3 minutes or longer if it feels good to you. You’re letting the water refresh you and wash away anything you no longer need deep into the ground below you. Pro Tip: if you have a hard time visualizing, try this version in the shower. Close your eyes, get present with a few deep breath and feel the water as it flows over you from head to toe. Imagine all the toxins, negative feelings, or events from your day washing down the drain. 4. Soak in the Tub: take an Epsom salt bath with lavender to release toxins and relax your body and mind. These exercises help release toxins, recharge your energy, and even get your creativity flowing. Find time to get outside & refresh near water as much as possible before the winter months hit. Use these exercises to fill in the gaps when you can't get outside. Which one feels best in your body? Schedule regular "water" breaks into your day.  P.S. Ready to find your flow & tap into your creative energy? SHINE™ and info on how you can join the next Rest Crew is coming soon. Get on the interest list here.
Do you have a Meditation practice?
If not, have you tried to Meditate but gave up because you felt too restless or anxious? Meditation is exercise for your mind. You're training your attention muscle. It's a form of Mindfulness or being present in the moment. If 10 minutes a day can sharpen your thinking, decrease your blood pressure, and boost your creative flow, doesn't it seem worth it to find a meditation exercise that works for you? The good news is sitting still is not the only way to meditate. You actually may have developed some meditation skills that you didn't realize you had. Have you ever DOODLED? You know those shapes and patterns you scribbled in a notebook or on paper while in class or on a Zoom call? Turns out it's a form of art therapy or creative self-expression that calms your nervous system and turns on your Relaxed Body. Those repetitive moves signal to the brain and body that you’re safe now. It’s OK to calm down. Besides being a relaxation exercise, Doodling also stimulates blood flow to the prefrontal cortex and reward center of the brain just like chocolate and dancing. Hello Happiness Hormones! Doodling is a form of Mindfulness- it helps you be more in the present moment. It also supports memory, comprehension, and problem solving. Makes me realize why I have a tendency to doodle when I listen to lectures or trainings. It helps me stay focused. One of the coolest things I find about Meditation is that it doesn't have to be perfect. Just the intention to meditate lights up the brain and starts to rewire the brain for better learning, memory, and attention. Obviously the more you attempt to meditate, the more you'll reshape your brain. Other health benefits of meditation include improving your immune system function and sleep, reducing anxiety and depression, decreasing blood pressure, and increasing creativity. Are you ready to bust out your Doodling skills? Here's how you can get started. HOW TO DOODLE:
It's super simple so no excuses. Give it a try this week. Doodling is a MINI Rest Move that you can do anywhere at anytime to help you turn on your Relaxed Body, manage stress, and start to become more mindful. The Practice of Mindfulness helps us get into alignment, calmness, clarity, and improves our emotional regulation so we can be productive, focused, and ready to work/learn/communicate better. Take baby steps. Go for progress not perfection. It all adds up. Doodle your stress away! Mollie P.S. Ready to experience more Energy & Flow? It's almost time for our FREE Summer Workshop & the inside scoop on our next REST Camp: SHINE™! Get on the interest list here. It's daylight savings time!
Although I do wish we could just leave the time alone, I do prefer more light at the end of the day. It can take a week for our bodies to adjust to the change though. If you struggle with the time change, you can find 2 strategies to help you adjust faster here. There's also something simple you can do each morning to help your day have more ease & flow. I'm not talking about things like: -making your bed -staying off your phone for the first 20 minutes -drinking glass of water -doing a few breathing exercises and stretches -having a meditation practice Those are all great moves to start your day and make part of a morning routine. Slowly warming up over that first 15-30 minutes will help you tap into your intuition and creativity setting you up to have your best ideas and better focus for the day. But first, I want you to try something while you are still in bed. Before you even open your eyes, say to yourself "Today's my BEST day ever!" Set the intention for your day with this simple statement and watch how much smoother your day goes. Rise like the sunrise. Slowly waking up. Start with a positive intention about your day. Train yourself to be mindful of your first thought. Make it a good one. Your body & brain will appreciate the positive vibes. Have a great day! Mollie P.S.EXCITING NEWS- our next round of SHINE™ & opportunity to be a part of Rest Crew #2 is coming up soon- get on the waitlist here. You know that warm, fuzzy feeling that washes over you when you’re in love? That's your LOVE hormone, Oxytocin, in action. It helps encourage us to bond with others. Like a mom & her baby while nursing. Although physical touch is the fastest way to boost your Oxytocin levels, there are some simple moves you can do to get that loving feeling going. Just a 10-20% increase will promote the relaxation response- hello Relaxed Body! Oxytocin increases your mood, empathy, trust, and openness to connect with others. It decreases cortisol, inflammation, the pain threshold, stress, and even withdrawal symptoms. Signs that it’s low include muscle aches, poor sleep, irritability, anxiety, sugar cravings, poor communication, and difficulty achieving orgasm. It definitely has some powerful jobs in the body so let’s get it flowing. 13 Moves To Boost Your Love Hormone, Oxytocin:
Lovingkindness Meditation (say out loud to yourself): May I be happy. May I be safe. May I be free of physical pain and suffering. May I be able to recognize and touch harmony and joy in myself. May I nourish wholesome seeds in myself. May I be healthy, peaceful, and strong. Spread the Love: You can say it for other people you care about as well but only after you’ve said it for yourself first. You can even expand it to strangers or a larger community. When you say it for others, change the word “I” to the name of the person (or group) you would like to say it for. Example: May (name of loved one or group) be happy. May (he/she/they) be safe. OVER TO YOU: Pick one of the Oxytocin Moves above to boost or bring back that loving feeling. See which ones work best for you. You don’t have to be into the hoopla around Valentine’s Day this year, but it's a great reminder to #1 do something that brings you joy and #2 find time to connect with others this week. Ender, Teddie and I will probably do a movie night tonight, but started the week off enjoying that awesome Super Bowl. On Friday, I'm looking forward to a karaoke happy hour I've got planned with some old friends. That'll hit a few moves on the list for me. What about you? Hope you have time to play & have some fun too! Happy Valentine's Day! Mollie P.S. No pet? No problem. Just stare into Teddie's eyes... P.P.S. Want more Relaxed Body Moves to add to your Rest Toolbox? Get started with this 3 minute Active Recovery Workout: Download Now
Let’s do a brain energy checkup.
You only have so much brain power each day. In the brain injury rehab world, we talk about energy by thinking of the brain as a pie. Your brain controls everything your body and mind are doing. If 50% of your brain’s focus is on pain (i.e. half the pie), then you’ve only got 50% left for every other function. Pain and stress- whether mental, emotional, or physical- can easily leave you with crumbs energy wise as they take up a lot of brain space (or pie). Here are 3 MOVES to help you free up some brain space for more energy & better performance:
Did you notice all these moves are calming by nature? A calm brain is one that creates, performs & learns better. OK your move. Pick one to test & track how much more energy you have each day for work & play. To Better Brain Moves! Mollie P.S. Want 4 more moves to help trigger your rest & relax mode? Check out this FIT Blog. Have you picked your 1 thing for 2024? That one goal you want to focus on? It could be improving your
Whatever it is, let's set you up for success. Use this brain hack to help you create lasting transformation as you develop your new habits: Celebrate Your Wins. If you’re trying to change behavior, you’ll want to celebrate more often. BJ Fogg, Stanford Behavior Scientist, has found that when we connect celebrating ourselves with new habits we are trying to change it’ll help you build a new behavior. When you celebrate a win, it sets off a physiological reaction that releases the happy chemicals in your brain and connects it to whatever you are celebrating. The more you celebrate something and associate it with feeling good, it’s more likely you will do it. Sort of sounds like dog training, doesn't it? Reward the good behaviors and you’ll get more of them. Also some parenting approaches. Since we’re all about Daily Mini Moves to help you have more energy, ease and flow, celebrating your wins to reinforce healthy habits will give you the dopamine hit your brain & body love instead of that bag of chips, the donut, the alcohol, the Netflix binge. Daily practice will get in the brain reps in that are needed to lay down new neural pathways until it’s an engrained, automatic healthy habit, or routine. If you want to go deeper, BJ Fogg’s website is full of resources including his book “Tiny Habits: The Small Habits That Change Everything.” Over To You:
We're here to celebrate your Wellness Wins & help you grow your Rest Toolbox so you can have a Calm, Strong, Rested Body and stay active & agile no matter your age. Cheers to a Peaceful, Playful, Joyful 2024! XO- Mollie, Ender, & Team Core Power We believe Rested Healers, Leaders, & Creators will heal the planet.
Let’s Rest More To Heal More. Your Body. Others. The Planet. Even though I've worked in health care for over 30 years and know the importance of self-care, I didn't truly become proactive with my own rest "care" until I was introduced to Yoga Nidra in 2018.
At the time, I was struggling with the physical, emotional, and mental demands of being the primary caregiver for my father who had a stroke in 2015 that left him with memory and vision issues. He went from living on his own and Commander of the VFW in his retirement to living in an assisted living facility and needing help with everything. I was managing his medical care and life. After his stroke, he had multiple health conditions and cancer diagnoses that had to be addressed. Just when we got one area under control another would pop up. Before his last cancer surgery, we weren't sure if he could get strong enough for surgery or have to go into hospice. For years I'd help patients and families through the similar situations, but when I got on the other side and became the caregiver for the "patient" I experienced a different level of exhaustion and stress. I needed to ramp up my rest care toolbox for sure as my normal coping strategies and mind body practices weren't enough to ride out the waves of his medical crises while juggling a career at the same time. I was at the peak of my caregiver fatigue after helping my dad through 3 cancer surgeries in a year when I was introduced to yoga nidra. That ended up being a turning point in my own self-care journey. It's when I truly started to prioritize rest. It was simple so I could stick with it. I just had to close my eyes and listen to a meditation for 15 minutes. I would get the rest medicine I needed that day. Nothing helped me feel as refreshed, re-energized, and back in balance than those nidra naps. It quickly became a non-negotiable and daily practice for me. Even though my caregiver journey with dad has ended since he passed away last year, I'm passionate about sharing the powerful rest tools I've found over the years with the helpers & healers of the world. They're some of the most high risk groups for exhaustion and burnout. In a culture that values busyness and views rest as lazy, it takes courage and support to prioritize having a Rested Body & Lifestyle. I recorded a podcast with Genevieve Richardson, a Speech Pathologist and owner of Life Speech Pathologies, to share a little bit of my rest story and burnout prevention strategies for caregivers. Genevieve works with and has the Listen For Life Aphasia Podcast for stroke survivors that have aphasia and their families. We discussed Rest and Relaxation Practices to help manage the stress and fatigue associated with caregiving as well as how to set yourself up for success by shifting your mindset around rest, prepping for rest, and building a rest support team. Anyone, not just caregivers, can benefit from the rest tips we shared on this podcast episode (episode 37). The good news is it doesn't take hours and hours of resting or meditating all day to feel more energy, ease, & flow each day. It's all about resets and reps when it comes to calming your nervous system & turning on your bodies healing powers. Listen to the podcast to find which rest move you want to add to your rest toolbox today. Please share with any of the nurturers, caregivers, or stroke survivors in your life. To A Rested Body! Mollie P.S. Want to experience yoga nidra with me? The wait list for our NEW Rest Camp: SHINE™ is open. You know how much I love simple yet powerful moves to help our brain & body perform better.
Here are 2 moves to help you reset & have more energy in less than 2 minutes: 1. Brain Reset: Use this breathing exercise (a "physiological sigh") to reduce stress in the moment.
2. Body Reset: Follow the Head To Toe Posture Checklist to turn on your core stabilizers & reset your posture during the day, to prep for workouts, or after sitting long periods. These tiny muscles need reminders and better posture helps light up your brain. This FIT Blog shows you a simple routine to find them. Both of these moves are most powerful when you do them for a few reps each day. Reps help your brain rewire for healthier thoughts & better movement patterns over time. Stress & poor posture won't be as draining on your energy levels. Set an alarm to remind you to practice throughout the day when you're first getting started. Enjoy the energy boost! Mollie P.S. The Waitlist for our NEW Rest Camp: SHINE™ is OPEN. How’s the transition from all the Summer fun going? Transitions like from Season to Season, vacation to work or school, work to being at home, or even as you go from being awake to lying down to sleep each night can be overwhelming. As routines or responsibilities change, it can often trigger Monkey Mind. Monkey Mind is when your mind is full and jumping from thought to thought sometimes leading to an anxiety spiral that you can’t seem to turn off. 3 SIMPLE MOVES TO CALM MONKEY MIND:#3 is a new one I’ve found particularly helpful these past few weeks.
1. Move your Body- do some squats, planks, stairs, stretch, Yoga moves, or take a walk to help you calm your body and brain. 2. Do a Brain Dump- write down everything that is bothering, worrying, or nagging at you then tackle the #1 thing that is most bothersome (i.e. NUTS- Nagging Unfinished Tasks). I break down in detail how to tackle your NUTS in this FIT blog. 3. Mouth Move- this one blows my mind honestly with how effective and simple it is. The hardest part is remembering to use it when you need it. Making it part of your daily practices like breath work or body work will probably be the best way to implement it. Here's how you do it: Relax your jaw so your mouth is like ½ inch open. Not sure if your jaw is relaxed? Say “Emma” and keep the position your mouth ends in at the end of saying that name. This is neutral alignment and a relaxed position for your jaw. Next gently press the tip of your tongue on the roof of your mouth. Bring your attention to your mind. What do you notice? Did the chatter stop? Every time I do this, it pauses the inner chatter going on in my brain. That pause can help me reset and get out of anxious thought patterns. So Freakin’ Fascinating- right? Apparently, we use the same muscles and tongue movements for talking when we are just thinking thoughts (or maybe it’s that they are activated) but when you do this position with your jaw and tongue it interrupts that movement pattern- basically like we’re tongue tied- which helps stop the thoughts. As I shared my excitement with Ender over how powerful and simple #3 is, I found out he uses it regularly to help him fall asleep or when meditating. In all fairness, he thought I knew about it. I’m like "What other calming exercises have you not shared with me these past 19 years?" He gave me several more which got him out of the doghouse (for now). I’ll be sharing them with you soon. So go ahead and add the Mouth Move to your insomnia toolbox. I've also heard it can help with TMJ issues. The next time you notice Monkey Mind creeping in, test out these 3 Moves to see which one creates more brain space and helps to calm your mind. To More Peace & Ease! Mollie P.S. Calling all Busy Bodies & Brains... the wait list for our NEW Rest Camp: SHINE™ is open. |
Mollie, Ender, Ty & Teddie
Mollie Miller, PT
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