STRETCH & REST CARE for the wellness warrior |
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February is a great month to check in on your self-care routines. It's not only Heart Month but mid way through is Valentine's Day. Great reminders to find more ways to love on yourself so you experience more joy & ease each day. Whether you’re a caregiver of little ones, old ones, sick ones, or furry ones, it’s so easy to neglect your own self-care (especially when those you nurture are vulnerable or ill). Just like when the flight attendant says to “put on your oxygen mask first”, putting your self-care first is security that you’ll have enough “oxygen” (i.e. good health and energy) left in your tank to help those who need you the most. It’s common among nurturers to get off track. The more simple you can make your practices, the less you’ll have to monitor yourself. When you realize you’ve gotten off track, start back up right away without beating yourself up. Your self-care doesn’t have to be a fancy spa appointment either. Something as simple as speaking more kindly to yourself is an act of self-love. Here’s a beautiful way to start. Try it right now. Say the Lovingkindness Meditation out loud to yourself: May I be happy. May I be safe. May I be free of physical pain and suffering. May I be able to recognize and touch harmony and joy in myself. May I nourish wholesome seeds in myself. May I be healthy, peaceful, and strong. How does that feel in your body? I find it calming. It relaxes and makes my body feel more open and supported. Deep Breath, Ahhhhh. Doesn’t it feel good to say these words to yourself? Pull it out anytime you’re beating yourself up about something, need a pick me up, or have monkey mind (overwhelmed with daily stressors and to do’s). You can also try it the following ways… Breathe With It: Close your eyes. Put your hand on your heart. Take 3 deep belly breaths. Say the Lovingkindness Meditation silently to yourself. Close with 3 more deep belly breaths. Sit and breathe as long as feels good to you. Spice It Up: Say the Lovingkindness Meditation to yourself in the mirror while you get ready each morning. This might feel uncomfortable or intense at first. Just keep doing it. It’ll get easier as your self-love and acceptance grows. Spread the Love: You can say it for other people you care about as well but only after you’ve said it for yourself first. You can even expand it to strangers or a larger community. When you say it for others, change the word “I” to the name of the person (or group) you would like to say it for. Example: May (name of loved one or group) be happy. May (he/she/they) be safe. OK, no excuses, it's time to be kind to yourself. Do one thing that brings you joy before you move on with your day. You're worth it! Mollie P.S. If you're worn out, burned out, or just in need of a time out, our free 3 Day Rest Adventure is for you. Say Yes To Rest
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How's the new year going so far? Did you pick your one thing to focus on? Or did you do like most people and overwhelm yourself with too many goals and give up? It's normal to get off track when trying to change your habits. It's also normal to have a hard time narrowing it down. Here's a tool that can help you clear your head, tune in to what's most important, and get back on track any time of the year. It helps you prioritize your day and also tap into your creative, intuitive side when you follow the directions closely. A lot of artists and writers use it to start their day and turn on their creativity muscles. It’s called Morning Pages. How to do Morning Pages:
Pro Tip: Keep your notebook by your bed. Avoid looking at your phone before you do this exercise. What if your “stuck” during your Morning Pages time? Here are some questions to get you in flow:
If you’ve tried working through these questions and still can’t get started on morning pages, you may be dealing with… major monkey mind! Here’s a remedy and different tool to start with instead: Eliminate the NUTS in your life. NUTS are those nagging unfinished tasks that go round and round in your mind. I breakdown how to crack your NUTS in this blog post. If your mind starts to resist or rebel after you’ve been doing morning pages for a while, keep going. It’s a good sign. You’re on the verge of a breakthrough. Woohoo!!! Writing this email has inspired me to do a month of Morning Pages. I hope you’ll join me. Every time I’ve done it in the past, I found it transformational and so freeing. To Calm & Strong Creativity Muscles! Mollie P.S. Still stuck & feeling restless? Our free 3 Day Rest Adventure is for you. Say Yes To Rest Happy Holidays! Before you wrap this year up, make sure you go all out & C-E-L-E-B-R-A-T-E. Have some fun & play time with friends & family, but also take time to celebrate your personal wins. Remember when you connect celebrating yourself with new habits, it increases the chances you'll build new behaviors and and create lasting transformation. It's also a great way to prep for ringing in the new year. Here are 3 simple ways to prep for 2023:
Go celebrate! Mollie & Ender P.S. If having more energy, ease & flow are part of your 2023 wellness priorities, here are some workout & burnout rest tools to help you get started: REST TOOLS: Ho. Ho. Ho. It’s time to Roll. Our favorite foam roller is on sale until 12/31/22. It’s like having a PT, Chiro, Massage Therapist in one and the closest we can get to sending our hands home with you. You can find it here*. Stock up on bands to build a strong core: Core Bands* Super Bands* REST CAMPS: Grab your tools then let us show you our favorite massage & stretch moves with them in one of our online camps.
CAMPS WITH A CAUSE: For every camp sale, we’ll make a 10% donation to the Senior Dog Rescue Program at Beagle Freedom Project to help with their medical care. REST YOUR GUT: Get started on your Clean Eating Adventure with The Nutrition Starter Set. It'll help give your gut a bit of a rest break for 30 days by decreasing the toxic load from inflammatory foods and allergens. You'll learn a simple, safe way to detox for better energy, less inflammation, and/or to release some weight. 3 DAY REST ADVENTURE: If you're worn out, burned out, or just in need of a time out, our free 3 Day Rest Adventure is for you. Say Yes To Rest *denotes affiliate link FYI Beagle Freedom Project is a fav organization of ours that rescues and rehomes animals who have been used for lab testing in the United States and abroad. In addition, they also work tirelessly to champion laws and legislation to ban the cruel practice of animal testing nationwide. I've got some sad news to share. Earlier this month, we had to say goodbye to Tyson, our 16 year old Beagle/Boston Terrier mix. Ty was a special blend of fearless, friendly, and funny as hell with a beagle nose that kept me on my toes. Ty was my workout, stretch, cuddle and writing buddy who loved the outdoors as much as mat and nap time. He was my accountability partner for taking walks and rest breaks each day. Rain or shine he got me outside exploring. He did not like that he couldn’t figure out how to join in when I would ride the spin cycle or do Exo Pilates chair workouts. Ty's passing has left a hole in my soul, but I’ll forever be honored and grateful I got to be his mama for so many years. To honor Ty and help you prepare for the holidays, I want to share some of his favs & daily moves for having a blissful life.  BLISS MOVES & TOOLS FOR YOUR PUPHere are Ty approved Bliss Moves & Tools to help you and your pup play, rest, & explore together! TO PLAY MORE: Bark Box* - a monthly box of $40 worth of toys & treats with different themes. Love how easy it is to customize the boxes. Excellent customer service. I waited way too long to order these for the pups. Get double the goodies on your first order. TO REST MORE: Best Dog Beds Ever! Best Friends by Sheri: Calming Donut Dog Beds. Their cozy blanket is awesome too.  TO EXPLORE MORE: RUFFWEAR has quality dog performance gear for outdoor adventurers. They have great harnesses – we got Ty the flagline harness with a handle to help give him a boost as needed on walks and to get in the car this past year. Side note: Ty was a puller in his teen years. The Freedom No Pull Harness from 2 Hounds Design fixed that issue on walks so we would't hurt his neck. You can find them on Amazon, Chewy, or direct from the company. BLISS MOVES & TOOLS FOR YOUHere are some Moves & Tools to help you be a calm, strong, happy pet parent! FOR BETTER MOBILITY: Ho. Ho. Ho. It’s time to Roll. Our favorite foam roller is on sale until 12/31/22. It’s like having a PT, Chiro, Massage Therapist in one and the closest we can get to sending our hands home with you. You can find it here*. FOR BETTER STABILITY: Stock up on bands to build a strong core. Core Bands* Super Bands* CAMPS TO RESHAPE: Grab your tools then let us show you our favorite massage & stretch moves with them in one of our online camps.
CAMPS WITH A CAUSE: For every camp sale, we’ll make a 15% donation to the Senior Dog Rescue Program at Beagle Freedom Project to help with their medical care. If you tell me which Senior you want me to donate to, I’ll make sure to do that in Tyson’s name. COFFEE FOR A CAUSE: GROUNDS & HOUNDS COFFEE CO.- we love their coffee, chocolate, cups, & gifts but mostly that 20% of every sale supports an animal rescue organization. Take advantage of one of their holiday deals or use WELCOME10 for 10% OFF! Happy Holidays & Stay Curious My Friend! *indicates affiliate link Here's a Power Move to make lasting changes to your posture and flexibility: Traction while you stretch. It'll help you overcome the compression forces that gravity, aging, sitting and exercise have on your tissue and joints. Ever feel like you are getting shorter as you age? It's not just a posture issue. Gravity is literally weighing you down. Remember everything’s connected to everything from head to toe through your fascia (connective tissue). When you hold onto a stable object to traction while you stretch, it'll help lengthen your fascia from the inside out to make more space in your tissue (i.e. from the joints to end of the fascia line). Here are my favorite ways to traction while you stretch: 1. Hold onto a wall, sink, or rail and stretch your upper body and upper back. 2. Put your foot on a wall, edge of sofa or use a band to stretch your hips and low back. 3. Use Pilates equipment to stretch and lengthen while you move through the movements. This past week, I accidentally found a new powerful way to traction that felt so good. You've got to try it. Here's a 2 minute overview of what happened. GO PROTest out holding onto different objects to see which one gives you the best release and feeling of lengthening through your body while you do your stretch moves. You never know. It might just be a tree like me! In the future, your goal will be to learn to traction & stretch without holding onto or bracing on something. Pilates or Bands are great ways to help you transition off holding onto or bracing on something to traction while you stretch. Go hang out! Mollie P.S. Want to learn how to traction while you stretch using the wall and bands? Join us in HIP Camp™. Camps For A Cause: For every camp sale we donate to organizations that support the health & welfare of animals, wildlife, & marine life. Two of our favs that help rescue & rehab are Beagle Freedom Project & Sheldrick Wildlife Trust. Did you Make Space last month to slow down for rest? If decluttering didn’t help turn on your rest & relax mode, you can try a different strategy: Move Your Body. Movement can help prepare your brain & body for rest. It’s the cue that it’s safe to calm down. Think about a yoga class. Most start with movement poses and end with relaxation poses or meditation. Moving your body first can help it calm & slow down. What kind of movement? It depends. Every BODY is different. You have to experiment and play with different moves to see which ones help you turn on your rest & relax mode. Tune into your body. What kind of movement does it need to slow down? It might need to shake, shout, sing, or stretch it out for just a few minutes before you rest. Or it might need to complete a stress cycle with 20-60 minutes of physical activity. Moving your body is the best way to complete a stress cycle and signal to the brain the threat (real or not) is over and it’s OK to calm down. Find something your body loves moving and doing before resting- running, jogging, walking, dancing, cycling, swimming, rowing, Yoga, Pilates, paddling, rock climbing- anything that feels good & triggers your rest & relax mode. Listen to your body. It’ll tell you what moves it needs to slow down. It’ll not only feel calmer but also help you tap into more of your intuitive, creative, and happiness vibes. Move & Play before you Rest & see how your body responds. Have fun! Mollie P.S. Want 4 more moves to help trigger your rest & relax mode? Check out this FIT Blog. Do you find it challenging to slow down to turn on your rest & relax mode? If so, you might need to Make Space. One way is to declutter. Do a quick check in. Is there anything that you need to let go of or finish up that is draining you? Is there something you’ve been thinking of doing or working on? Yes? Go do it! It’ll free up some brain space or move some energy to help you relax and slow down today. If you’re still struggling to slow down, here’s a podcast episode from my yoga nidra mentor, Karen Brody, that might help you overcome the resistance. In her Daring To Rest podcast episode #71, Karen has a discussion with Caroline Dooner about her 2 year rest journey and new book “Tired as F*ck: Burnout at the Hands of Diet, Self-Help, and Hustle Culture.” Gotta say I love that title 😊 but also the reminders of how many distractions there are that pull us away from connecting to our bodies and paying attention to those fatigue (warning) signals that when ignored lead to exhaustion and possibly burnout. It’s only when we slow down that we can feel and hear them. Also loved the reminder of how we get sucked into being “busy” to either numb out or fit in as it’s respected and rewarded in our society. I truly believe hearing other people’s rest stories can help you move forward on your own rest adventure and help with letting go of the shame & guilt that can be associated with rest in a hustle culture. You’re not lazy if you rest. And it doesn’t mean you have to sleep a million hours. Remember it's about baby steps & resets. It all adds up. Listen to the episode to do a rest checkup of your own life. It might help you identify some simple things you're doing that are draining the f*ck out of you (sorry- couldn't resist). Slow down to tune into your body. It’ll tell you what it needs to feel more energy & ease. Even though I’ve got my daily yoga nidra rest practice, I’m personally feeling the need to declutter before we take a long weekend to relax and celebrate our upcoming 18th wedding anniversary. I’m making space to rest & relax. I’m also preparing my body to slow down because I’m coming off such a busy, emotional time dealing with my father’s passing this summer. My body needs a variety of rest practices and more rest than I normally need right now. What does yours need? Happy Resting! Mollie I’ve known what I wanted to share with you this month, but it’s been delayed because you know life… I’ve had to focus on family and taking care of my energy to celebrate my dad’s life as he passed away peacefully with my brother’s and I by his side at the end of July. The more I look at pictures and have memories pop up, it’s becoming clear that dad was a big influence on my love of nature & water which ties into what I wanted to share with you. I grew up on South Florida beaches and lakes just like dad. My dad was a Bass fisherman his whole life. He later became a hunter after we lived in Louisiana, and he spent time with our Cajun relatives. Thinking of when I was younger, it feels like the longest periods of time I spent with dad was fishing on his Bass boat. He even taught us to water ski behind it. So embarrassing! Dad also loved to sit outside in the morning with his coffee and just watch nature. OK, so he was also known to get his BB gun out to scare away squirrels and raccoons from the pecans or bird feeders. But this Vietnam Army vet, who called yoga therapy “yogurt” while at one of his inpatient rehab stays, had his own way of meditating by calming and grounding himself through nature or on the water. He just didn’t know that’s what he was doing. Here are 3 ways you can easily tap into the healing power of water and nature yourself: 1. CALM YOUR BRAIN: visualize or sit in nature or near water and do some Cooling Breathwork. 2. CALM YOUR BODY: try this Qi Gong "Fountain" exercise. It’s a moving meditation to help you get in the flow and “just be water.” It can be done in sitting or standing. Kids love it. It’s a fun one to do when you need a quick break to clear your mind, calm your body, or recharge. Just 7 reps can make a difference and help you find your flow. Watch this short video to learn how simple it is to do. 3. CHALLENGE YOUR BODY & BRAIN: go Stand Up Paddle Boarding to get the benefits of the calming meditative powers of nature AND the core challenge to your balance & coordination from stabilizing on the water. Hopefully this will inspire you to spend more time in nature or near the water. If you’re not able to get outside, you can do the first two inside. And if you’ve never SUP, well what are you waiting for? It’s so much fun and a great thing to try over Labor Day weekend. Go try some "yogurt" :) Mollie P.S. Summer Savings Alert. It’s time to Roll. Our favorite foam roller is on sale until 9/30/22. It’s like having a PT, Chiro, Massage Therapist in one and the closest we can get to sending our hands home with you. You can find it here*. Then let us show you our favorite massage & stretch moves with the Rollga in one of our online camps. *denotes affiliate link Do you know how to get your brain and body in flow? In sports we call it being in the zone. When a baseball pitcher is throwing a no hitter, he’s in the zone or flow. It’s that state where you are fully present, focused and at ease. There is no effort involved. You loose track of time. Writers and artists are in that state when their creative juices are flowing. As you get to know your body, you can do activities to help trigger a flow state. Here are some ways to help you get in flow.
Do any of those pop out at you as a clue to how you can get into flow each day or before tasks you need to be at your most focused or creative self? For me, it’s movement especially for writing tasks. I typically have to move my body before I can write. Sometimes journaling will get my creative juices flowing but I get my best ideas when or right after I move my body. You know I love stretching and Pilates, but dance has always been a part of my life as well. Is there something you do to get in flow that isn’t on this list? I’d love for you to share it with me. And if you have no idea what helps you get in flow, pick one and experiment for a few days and track how your mind and body feel. Then compare to a different one. Have fun with it. The more you practice, the more you can get in flow. It’ll boost your mood, energy, and add more ease to your day. Find Your Flow! Mollie P.S. Download this Daily Planner for more mini moves to help you get in flow each day. If you're worn out, burned out, or just in need of a time out, our free 3 Day Rest Adventure is for you. Say Yes To Rest! It’s time… to give yourself the gift of rest. I know how foreign rest is to so many of us especially women, caregivers, and health professionals. We've got a 3 Day Rest Adventure to share with you - it's free so no excuses! It’s only been 3 years since I started my own rest adventure using the rest tool of Yoga Nidra. I found it when I was completely worn out from helping my dad through his 3rd cancer surgery in a year while he lived 6 hours away from me. A podcast during my last commute before I moved him back to my area caught my attention and that led me on a 40 day Yoga Nidra challenge. One nidra nap and I was hooked. I'll never forget the way it refreshed and energized my worn-out body (and soul). I've stuck with it almost daily since then and when I find something that is this powerful for my mind and body I always want to share it with everyone which leads me to taking another certification (i.e. Pilates, Fascial Stretching, Trigger Point Therapy). Ironically, I found myself doing my Yoga Nidra Daring To Rest™ facilitator training during the first few months of the pandemic. I was rapidly approaching burnout due to having to coordinate care of my complex neuro patients (and my dad) in an upside down medical system while we all were dealing with the stressors of living through a global pandemic. Having Yoga Nidra in my rest toolbox kept me from crashing into my typical burnout cycle. I saw the signs and added as much nidra rest when I needed it as best I could to get me through it. What I love about Yoga Nidra is that it addresses 3 layers of exhaustion- physical, mental/emotional, and soul exhaustion. Most rest tools address physical or only one area but the deep rest of Yoga Nidra using the Daring To Rest™ method addresses all three. The best part is you don’t have to do anything except lie down and listen to a recorded meditation. You’ll get the rest medicine you need at the time. For me, the pandemic brought on intense mental/emotional exhaustion I had only felt on that level a few times in my life- after a divorce and the death of my mom. Lots of brain fog. I couldn’t even focus on reading books which I love to do. I definitely didn’t have any creative juices flowing until about the middle of 2021. As much as I’ve wanted to share what I’d learned in my training with our community, I had to listen to my body. The message until recently was "not yet Mollie, just rest." Honestly before I knew about this rest tool, I wouldn’t have listened. I would have pushed through to get it out there as I know how much it helps and is needed. Even though the message I’m getting now is “let’s go” and the brain fog has lifted, the plan is to ease our way into sharing this new rest tool with you. I’m inviting you on a 3 Day Yoga Nidra Rest Adventure. It’s free and only takes 15 minutes each day. All you have to do is lie down and listen to a recorded Yoga Nidra meditation at a time that works best for you. You’ll want to commit to the 3 days in a row to get the most benefit. JOIN US ON A 3 DAY REST ADVENTURE  PREP WORK: MAKE SPACE FOR REST Your homework is to tune into your body and figure out what time of day you want to block off to rest for 15 minutes for your 3 day adventure. This will help you actually do it. It can be in the morning, midday when you have low energy, at the end of your workday before you transition to your evening home activities, or just before bed to help with sleep. The time doesn’t really matter. What matters is you commit to 15 minutes of rest for the 3 days by picking a time and blocking it off on your calendar as soon as possible. You can then schedule other activities around it. Trust that your mind and body will get what it needs no matter the time you pick. It’s OK if you aren’t normally a napper. This is deep rest and relaxation for your nervous system. You might just have the most nourishing nap you've ever had. Be open to testing it out. You have to feel it in your body to truly understand the benefits. It’s also OK if you're resisting because you’re telling yourself that you’re too busy. It’s normal for there to be resistance when trying something new and rest is not something that is encouraged by our society. Let the resistance pop up, notice it, but do it anyway. You deserve to rest no matter what your brain is telling you. SIGN UP NOW FOR 3 DAYS OF REST Say Yes To Rest! Mollie P.S. If you’re worn out, burned out or just in need of a time out, the free 3 Day Rest Adventure is for you. All you have to do is lie down and listen for 15 minutes. And we’ll give you 2 simple prep steps to help you actually slow down enough to do it. We’ve got you so… COME REST WITH US! |
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Mollie Miller, PT
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